The Difference Between ‘Looking’ and ‘Staring’!

Today while commuting to the office on a crowded bus, all of a sudden, a teenage girl started shouting at a guy who must be in his early 30s. Just like everyone else, I turned curiously to analyze what happened on the spur of the moment. Their continuous argument gave us all a hint of an eve-teasing incident. The guy was allegedly staring at the girl, which was making her uncomfortable.

She shouted loud enough to make him feel embarrassed and defend his alleged act. The guy, who was looking a well-bred to me was then started explaining his part. While the girl was continuously accusing him of molestation, he was defending himself by making her understand it was a natural act.

According to him, he just looked at her, without having any evil in his mind, while she caught him in the act. Well, before the brawl could conclude, I had to get off the bus as I had reached my destination.

However, this incident didn’t wind-up there and stuck me with an unanswered question if this was really a natural act as he was portraying, or was it long enough to make her feel really uncomfortable and take the stand?

According to a poll conducted by Kodak Lens Vision Centres, an average man, between the ages of 18 to 50, spends nearly a year staring at women while an average woman isn’t far behind and spends almost six months sneaking a peek at various men in the same lifespan.

The Difference Between ‘Looking’ and ‘Staring’!

Mark Ireland, the spokesperson for Kodak, said in an interview, “Men are renowned for looking at women but it’s interesting to find out exactly how long they spend eyeing girls up. A year of their life is a long time to spend with their eyes fixed on the opposite sex.”

Being a heterosexual, I too feel looking at someone of opposite sex is a natural human tendency and a usual act, we, as the human being, does on a daily basis. It wouldn’t harm anyone as long as it doesn’t provoke someone to question your dignity. Hence, it shouldn’t go beyond a healthy visual interaction.

So, what’s your call on it?


Thank you Undertaker!!!

The Deadman!!

The Undertaker

Thank you Undertaker for the joy you gave us for more than 25 years!
Thank you Undertaker for becoming the reason to watch WWE throughout these years!
Thank you Undertaker for the gong sound that intimidates your opponents!
Thank you Undertaker for showing up year after year in the Wrestlemania!
Thank you Undertaker for entertaining us for decades!
Thank you Undertaker for fighting through nagging pain!
Thank you Undertaker for inspiring others to join Wrestling!
Thank you Undertaker for the memories you left behind!
I know it was very hard for you to manage to survive against the young athlete Roman Reign at the age of 52.
I know it was very hard for you to sustain the streak of “The Undefeated Undertaker” throughout these years!
I know, it was painful, it was heartbreaking, and it was a sad sight to watch you going this way.
But, there is only one thing I have to say to you!
Thank you Undertaker for making WWE your yard all these years !!!

Cos, I’m Just a Human

I’m sorry that I’m not the morning dew, which looks pretty on the green

I’m sorry that I’m not like a raindrop, that you can see through me

I’m sorry that I’m not like an autumn leaf, that is left to sweep

I’m sorry that I’m not like a falling snow, that you can feel so deep

I’m sorry that I’m not the tears of joy, that can express everything even without a word

I’m sorry that I’m not like pebbles, which can create sound to soothe your nerves

I’m sorry that I’m not like morning shower, which can take away the sludge of your past

I’m sorry that I’m not like a shooting star, that can make your every wish come true

I’m sorry that I’m not like the sun rays, that can make bright everything it comes across

I’m sorry that I’m not like the sunset either, that can appease your eyes making everything gloss

I’m sorry that I’m not like a morning mist, that can cloak the river to surge life in it

I know these things look beautiful while falling down…

But baby..I’m Sorry That I’m Just a Human….
Humans Don’t Look Beautiful When Falling Down

Special thanks to AimerHina and Harsh Mohan